Addicted to Love

“Might as well face it, you’re addicted to love… false love.”

Why is the word “love” so often associated with physical beauty, and not mental or emotional beauty? Why is the word “love” used in relationships where genitals determine faithfulness? Why do so many people not realize they’ve been emotionally abandoned by their lovers until they’ve had sex with someone else? Why is so-called “love” involved with so many horrible things, like murder, heartache, and suicide? Why is this word “love” so terrifying to use for some they have to use the word “like”?

False love. That’s a major reason. Yes, FALSE love. Meaning love that is not based on heart, that’s not based on virtues and principles. False love spawns from an Ego-driven mind, and that’s based on survival at ANY cost. False love is unnatural, inorganic, and going against the flow of Nature. False love masquerades as true love, because the Ego doesn’t understand what love really is. The Ego CAN’T understand what love really is, because true love isn’t profitable—it’s beautiful.

True love isn’t about getting entertained 24/7, it’s about fucking standing up and DOING the right thing. True love isn’t about reputation ratings, bank account scores, physical attractiveness, or all the various shallow bullshit that occupies most of mainstream society. True love is about authentic human connection, aligning with Nature, attractiveness on inner levels, and all the various qualities that manifest true humanity. True love cares about the entire picture, not just a single pixel.

Because the word “love” can mean so many different things, it is absolutely critical that you clearly define what you mean when you say the word “love.” Don’t let love get confused, muddy, and unclear. Or else that love will become something that isn’t very lovely. “True” love is true, hence the reason it’s called that. True love isn’t based on lies, masks, and editing yourself to get into someone’s pants. True love is about THE truth—not what you want to be true. You can’t edit the truth, you can only edit your perception of the truth.

Romance isn’t putting on a pretty mask to get into someone’s pants. It’s honestly showing your true face, without fear, and accepting your partner’s true face, without fear. Love isn’t a goddamn currency to trade in, it’s the natural and healthy state of life that is shared with others free of charge.

The second most powerful 3 words someone can say are: “I love you.” And the first most powerful? “I was wrong.” Because true love is never afraid of being wrong, it’s afraid of being false. If you can’t confront, deal with, and correct your own wrongs, you will never find true love.

Expressing love can take many forms, and let’s be honest here: sex is a great way to do so. Baking someone a batch of cookies is awesome. (I prefer chocolate chip but gingerbread is delicious too.) Doing your lovers share of the chores will be appreciated. Giving them flowers might be cliché, but it still says timeless loving things to them. However… giving your lover body-rocking mind-blowing hot sex filled with orgasm after orgasm in non-stop nights and days of passionate ecstasy… now that says “I love you” like nothing else can.

I embrace love-guided lust, not lust-guided love. What about you?

If you have any questions or comments feel free to speak your mind.